Doing things/being alone sounds like a very hedonistic lifestyle, but it’s just the conscious choice to spend time with oneself. Many wonderful things happen when you learn how to be happy alone.
1. You learn to trust yourself.
Being alone allows you to get back in touch with your intuition. You learn to trust in yourself and your ability to handle any situation that life throws your way.
2. You recharge.
Being alone with no distractions gives you the time and peace to clear your mind, to focus, and to think more clearly. When you are alone, you can rejuvenate, you can breathe freely, be at peace and simply relax.
3. You become stronger.
When you spend time alone, you are utterly dependent on yourself to tackle any obstacle that lay in your path.
4. You reflect on your own life.
You will figure out what changes you need to make, you will find answers to big questions and gain a better understanding of what you desire in life.
5. You can do what you want.
Being alone frees you up to do exactly what you want to do. You can wear whatever you want, eat whatever you want to eat, go wherever you want, and devote your time and attention to hobbies that are meaningful to you.
6. You get in touch with your emotions.
When you spend time alone, you create a deeper understanding of what you feel and what emotions you need to work on.
7. You will get more things done.
Being alone allows you to focus more effectively and concentrate fully. You can order your priorities and focus on what you need instead of focusing on other people’s needs.
8. Your mind is happier.
When you are alone nothing can distract you from the thoughts and feelings you deny yourself during your busy days.
9. You get to know yourself more.
Being alone allows you to understand more about yourself and to tap into your true inner being. Being alone gives you the opportunity to look inward and discover who you are.
10. You appreciate other people more.
By spending time alone, you realize just how amazing it is to be able to enjoy life with other people and you have a greater appreciation for the time you spend with them.
11. You are more independent and confident.
Being alone allows you to become comfortable with yourself and this gives you a sense of independence. This independence gives you a sense of confidence in yourself because you see that you’re capable of living on your own terms.
12. You choose quality over quantity.
Being alone makes you realize that what matters is not the number of people you interact with, but the quality of those interactions. You will prefer to be by yourself than spend time with those who you don’t really care for.
13. You don’t have a fear of being alone.
When you love being alone you have a strong connection with yourself. You won’t be afraid of being by yourself because you are comfortable being in your own lovely company.
14. You set stronger boundaries for dating.
When you love being alone, you stop being desperate for a romantic relationship because you have fun on your own, you are happy being alone.
15. You don’t seek validation or approval.
When you love being alone, you refrain from making comparisons with others and learn just how little the opinions of others matter.
16. You have stronger relationships.
When you are alone, you learn to listen closely to what others say. Watch closely what they do, and you try to understand them better as a person.
17. You learn that happiness comes from within.
When you learn to love being alone, you understand that you are complete, you realize that happiness can only grow from inside of you; it can never be given to you by another.
Time alone is important. Time alone is beautiful.