Yes, we live in a computer age where everyone is always busy typing or texting other people on watsapp, facebook, tweeter, nimbuzz, badoo, instagram et cetera…

What’s the easiest way to make friends on facebook? That’s our focus, we all have that pretty person, cute dude or a very amazing writer that we want to be friends with either from pure admiration or a crush. …

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To get them to like you or chat you back, you can do the following

  1. UPDATE YOUR PROFILE

The first thing people look at when you chat them up newly or send them a friend’s request is to look up your profile…

Is it ridiculous? Real or responsible looking or plain childish?

You cannot school in Abia state and work in Newyork and reside in Dubai, definitely you don’t have to bring everything about you to social media, but there should be an element of honesty in your profile…

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2. UPDATE YOUR PROFILE PICTURE

I’ll say this again, please step up your photography game, you have to appear beautiful and classy. Be decent in your dressing for the ladies and for the guys dress responsibly and be polished

3. DON’T BE RUDE

The way you start a chat says much about your character. To some people, starting a chat with them using words like  ‘hey’ or curse words like  ‘nigga’, b*tch’ is very irritating and they wouldn’t want to be friends with you. Be nice, be friendly and be responsible …

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4. DO NOT BE TOO INQUSITIVE

Yes, this applies to the first time you are chatting with the person, don’t ask unreasonable questions like… where do you work? Are you married? Tell me about your love life? Or when last did you have sex? How much do you earn? Where do you live?

That’s a big turn off to many, what happened to looking up their profiles? And some questions could make you look like a real fraudster…so be careful…

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5. BE ACTIVE

Someone you want to be friends with would only notice you if you are an active friend …do not be a ghost reader or a dormant friend…

And expect them to click with you….

Like their pictures, make positive comments  to anything positive they write… that way when you chat him or her up…

They’ll be like :  ‘oh, you’re that guy, I saw your comment, I like the way you think’ and just like that bam! You’re chatting already…..

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