I’ve been dating my girlfriend for over one and a half years now and our relationship has been smooth. We love each other very much. We usually would communicate and see each other often but things have become sour of late. She stopped calling me, she hardly chats with me and when I ask to see her, she gives me a raincheck. It’s disturbing. I’m a final year student and I want to marry this girl but I’m taking things slow and steady since she’s yet to get into school.
I’m not sure your girl is being entirely sincere. There’s something not quite right with this picture you’ve painted. I would have thought she would carry you along rather than shut you out.
But I am also aware that our parents’ blessings are always required for the success of any union. The lady in question is still very young, stays with her parents and is still a dependant on them. Even if she doesn’t want to go the direction her mom wants, she’s probably bound by the culture of our society to do as she’s told.
Having said this much, I’d also recommend that you take time to pray about it. Let the Holy Spirit guide you on what step to take.
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