I have been in a relationship for five years now but in the past one year his character has changed. He calls me once in three months and we chat three or four times a week. Whenever I ask that we break up, he says NO.
He has asked me to marry him now but his character is still the same. Please what should I do?
It definitely doesn’t add up. The picture you’ve painted seems to suggest that you two are not in the same city. Calling once in three months is not a relationship. Knowing how many times you chat just doesn’t sit well at all. Even as platonic friends, calling once a month doesn’t cut it.
Meanwhile, have you met his parents? Family members? I think you have invested too much in this relationship to be treated this way. I mean, 5 years is no joke.
Have a sit-talk with him if you can. I really do not think the guy is being sincere. Whilst it’s flattering that he would ask you to marry him, I don’t trust that his marriage proposal. I suspect he is gauging other options and is just stringing you along until he is sure. You might need to pick yourself up and move on.
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