My wedding is less than a month away, yet my EX wants me so dearly. She says she wants me to have sex with her before my marriage so that she won’t be disturbing me anymore.
Brother! Brother!! Brother!!! How many times did I call you? Pull your ears very well and hear me…
First, I’m wondering if your ex is married or single… But any which ways, this is bad news!!!
It’s either of two things:
1. She might just want to use it as a last ditch effort to get you to call off your upcoming wedding. She might after the sex declare that she is pregnant.
2. She might use it to blackmail you into marrying her.
I know you probably still care about this lady and don’t want to ‘hurt her’ but right now my dear, it’s best to walk away from this ‘temptation’. Please RUN! For the sake of this other woman you have chosen to marry, for whatever reason…Let your ex go.
Even if she is being sincere and it’s really just closure she is after, don’t oblige her this one. It’s best for all parties involved (including her) for you to put your foot down and say NO. You’ll in fact be doing her a favor. Whatever pain or hurt she may feel from you turning her down now, she’ll get over it and probably thank you later.
All the best dear. I really hope you’ll do the right thing here.
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