I have been worried for some time now. My wife has a male friend who is noted for having affairs with both married and single ladies. I asked her to delete his phone number but instead, she called the man and told him what I said. The man then calls me to insult me.
Please, was he acting up or did I accuse my wife wrongly or was my wife right to have told him what I said?
Is it me or something about this story seems off. You have issues with a guy your wife is friends with and ask her to delete his number… Your wife goes to tell him and the man calls you up to insult you… And you’re asking me if the man was acting up???
No, he’s not acting up. He was being stupid but I am more concerned about your wife’s part in all of this. If you have indeed told the story as it actually played out, I can immediately conclude that your wife doesn’t regard you as the husband in your marriage.
I don’t know what that man smoked or where he got the effrontery to even call you, talk more insult you. I mean, who does that? And what did your wife do when this happened? I would expect my friends (male and female) to treat my husband with the utmost respect so anyone who would have the nerve to pull this kind of stunt (whether justified or not) would definitely hear it from me!
I am quite bothered but there’s no telling what they’ve been up to. Your wife needs to sit up and you two need to get some counseling. What you have described suggests that there’s something not right with your marriage and there’s a lot you are not saying. I would need more information to say more but a chat with your Pastor or someone you both respect will do you a lot of good.
All the best sir
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