Let’s face it, falling in love feels amazing. Falling in love is different for each person, including both partners in a relationship. Partners may have different reasons for falling in love with the other partner, and typically, partners usually fall in love at different times during the course of their relationship.
Women are typically attracted to “a man’s man” — a guy who thinks for himself, makes his own decisions, and follows through on what he says.
Women love it when a man lives by his own words. Therefore, one of the most important things a man can do to get a woman to fall in love with him is to say what he means and mean what he says.
Women, just like men, are initially drawn to a potential partner because of his physical attractiveness. However, physical attractiveness is not what keeps a woman or encourages her to fall in love with you, but rather, it’s all the things that lie below the surface.
When men do things they may not be consciously aware they are doing it conveys a feeling of genuineness to women, this is who you are, not an act. Women look at these unconscious acts as part of a man’s character, characteristics inherent to him.
If you really want to know how to get a girl to like you, here are 15 positive personality traits that make women fall hard:
Women typically fall for men that can be transparent. Women have difficult time when they cannot trust what a man says, making it nearly impossible to trust him with something as important as her feelings.
It’s difficult for a woman to fall in love with a man she is unable to trust.
Women love men that can be a good listener or sounding board. We do not necessarily want you to solve our problems or give us advice, but, provide a willing ear.
Show her that you care. Sure telling a woman you love her feels great but showing your love through both words and action feels even better.
Most women look at the way a man loves and treats his family as a way to determine his ability to love her. If a man is thoughtful and loving, then a woman is more likely to fall in love with him.
No one likes someone that seems to always be absent when they need them or have an excuse for why they can’t or didn’t show up.
Women typically fall for a man that has an easy-going personality, someone that has a good attitude. Its hard to fall in love with a man that has a bad attitude or a man that we cannot communicate with.
Women love it when a man can laugh at himself sometimes and not take the everyday challenges of life too seriously.
We love it when a man can show both his tough and soft side, his ability to be open about his feelings and challenges is very attractive. It is amazing when a man can openly and honestly talk about his feelings with us.
Women love a man who can turn a lemon into lemonade, cheering them up when they aren’t feeling so good. The ability to help us reframe a negative situation and see both the positives and the negatives is invaluable.
Women love it when a man considers their feelings when planning, doing, or hanging out with others, it conveys empathy and a willingness to avoid hurting us.
There is nothing like a deep enveloping embrace. Not the one-armed hug that can be given to anyone, but deep hugs that convey a desire to be connected with a woman.
Too often planning or coordinating an event or an outing will fall in the lap of a woman, however, we appreciate when a man can take charge sometimes and we can leave the planning to him.
14. Skilled (in the bedroom)
When a man knows where to touch us, how to touch us, and knows our body better than we do this is a huge turn on.
15. Mindful of the difference between intimacy and sex
Women appreciate when a man can caress and kiss her without always wanting or assuming sex will follow. Having healthy intimacy in a relationship shows that sex does not always have to be present in order to enjoy a woman.