Hello Ross, My name is Patrick and this is my divorce story. My experience with my ex-wife hs created a lack of trust for women in general. I never thought I would be a divorcee but my wife had it coming. My name is Patrick and this is my divorce story.
As a bachelor, I had outlined the qualities I desired in my woman and looked forward to having her birth my children. For most of my adult life, I focused on my career and business. I often got teased by my friends that I was gay since I had no girlfriend even though doing okay financially. I would usually laugh it away because I just hadn’t met the one.
My previous relationships had not ended well and it had been caused by trust issues. When I met my wife, Nancy, I wasn’t looking for a relationship per se. we got talking at a party and later we went out on a date. She was intelligent and I loved the fact that she was ambitious. I fell in love with her soon after and asked her to marry me. She accepted my proposal to my utmost joy.
We had relative peace in the early stages of our marriage. God gave us two lovely girls and they were enough for me. My wife wanted to have a son but I told her our daughters were a blessing we should be thankful for.
Suspicions and the scandal
My marriage was in its sixth year when I began to suspect my wife of cheating. She was suddenly staying out later than usual and leaving the children with the neighbour more than necessary. She would take phone calls away from me. I eventually had to confront her and though she didn’t admit to cheating, she said she would adjust. Nancy only changed her tactics but the truth came out in an ugly way.
My wife got pregnant and I thought it was mine. She didn’t seem excited about it. Though it wasn’t planned, I accepted to have another child. It was after delivery that I realized the child, a boy, was not mine. He was born mullato.
This proved my suspicions all along were valid. I wept like a baby because my family didn’t lack any basics. I wondered what made my wife go so far. She begged me but I was far gone in anger. I may have forgiven her if the child had been mine but seeing that boy made me hate her.
It was something of a scandal to my family and friends. It took us all a while to get over it. I filed for a divorce and currently share custody of my children with her.
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Nothing more to add… These things eventually surface. Not sure what could have led Nancy astray. It obviously was the fact that she wanted more than she was getting from Patrick.
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