Many people compromise or go against their life values in the name of love. Love isn’t a fight, it is not something you have to struggle or get ‘uncomfortable’ to enjoy. yes, there are little sacrifices you can make here and there, but there are some things you musn’t ever do in the name of love.
HAVING SEX WHEN YOU NEVER PLANNED TO
If you aren’t comfortable with pre-marital sex, then you should uphold your religious values or personal beliefs. You should cherish is jealously, you may not want to engage in sex for many other reasons. Don’t let someone manipulate you into having sex with them.
They will be like: ‘If you love me, then prove it, have sex with me’
What makes you think this person like you? They may be after your body.
GET BEATEN IN THE NAME OF LOVE
If you have a boyfriend that constantly abuses you physically, you know the right thing to do but you choose to stay because he tells you he loves you. Don’t be a fool, if he refuses to change or go for therapy. Walk away quickly, else you will die for love and trust me, he would come to your funeral with another woman. No one is worth dying for.
SPEND YOUR LIFE AWAY
Maybe you’re in a relationship hoping it would lead to marriage. You spend so much and invest a lot in this person. I am not saying you should be stingy but if you must spend on someone, do it without expecting something in return. This is because humans can be very ungrateful and full of surprises.
What makes you think they love you back? What if they are just in it for the benefits enjoyed?